it feels great, writing posts without having to think about others. i mean i used to write things just to please people. well not really. but i had to be really careful with what i wrote just so i won't hurt other people's feelings and emotions. this year's raya taught me a lot of lessons. no, not actually A LOT. the correct word should be SOME. so, lessons learnt are (brief pause) ----- be nice to everybody and never underestimate people. oh! there's another one. ignore what other people say because they can't do anything about everything.